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"Now you may wish to look around your house. Is it a place where your love would find comfort? Are the items here for his or her delight? Is there an area of your existence that would keep love away? Deal with these things now, for his or her footsteps are near." "I thought you would never get here," I said. "I know. And that's what took me so long...." Marianne Williamson From: |
| Feng Shui at Your Service Vikki Albers, Consultant |
Add Sizzle to Your Bedroom If you are looking for The One, found The One, love The One or are recovering from The One and now want a different One – let yourSelf be supported by Feng Shui. Ensure your bedroom supports the relationship you are looking for. Oh, yes. Let’s have some clarity as we begin… in relationship, please know that YOU are The Ultimate One. First and foremost, love, love, love yourSelf. Instead of looking at a specific life area of the Feng Shui Bagua, we are going to look at the master bedroom. Because we spend so much time in this room, it is very important to the overall balance of Chi in our lives. Focus here to meet a new lover or add heat to an existing relationship. Within this room the single most important piece of furniture is the bed. I cannot stress too strongly how important it is to have a new bed. Please do not sleep in a bed you inherited from someone, found at a garage sale or slept in during a previous relationship. A used bed has been imprinted with the energy of the previous owner (oh-oh – maybe even more than one). The previous owner may have been seriously ill, repeatedly participated in ill-fitting relationships, or suffered from depression to the point of rarely leaving the bed. You do not want to sleep\+ in a bed energetically imprinted by who-knows-what. Thinking bed? Think new. Only a new bed and fresh Chi will support you and this relationship. As you look into this room from the entry door, the most auspicious bed placement is diagonally against the opposite wall. When sitting in bed, you want to see the entry to the room without turning your head more than 45 degrees. For optimal Chi flow, remember to store no thing under the bed (not shoes, wrapping paper, the old VCR…).* Avoid a great deal of direct sunlight on your bed; it may challenge your ability to sleep soundly at night. Matching nightstands and lamps encourage Chi, especially if you are looking for The One. Be sure you have enough space on each side of the bed to be able to get in comfortably. Leave your things out of their night stand; make space (i.e. opportunity) for them. Some massage oil is OK. The bedroom is for rest, relaxation, intimacy, rejuvenation, and fun. This is the space where we re-create ourSelves. At best a television, FAX, TAD, desk, computer, sewing machine, exercise equipment, etc. are detractors, and if at all possible should be in a different part of your home. If this is not possible, a screen blocking the machinery from view will help. Please cover the TV screen in this room when not in use. Quick tips to add sizzle: If your mate has not yet appeared, leave a drawer empty and some closet space available. This is an adult space so please no Teddy bears, model cars, games, etc. Photos of children, parents, family, and friends should be elsewhere. Only images of the two of you, or a romantic representation of the two of you here. This is also not the place for mementos from a previous relationship – that should all be gone by now. Spot and Smokey’s beds should be down the hall – not a wholesome three-some if pets sleep in your room. At the end of the day, put laundry in the hamper rather than leaving it on the floor to diminish Chi during the night. If you have a bathroom within your bedroom, please, keep the door closed all the time and consider hanging a mirror on the outside of the bathroom door. Limit live plants to two. Light two candles (red, pink, or white). Sandalwood essential oil is erotic aromatherapy. Arrange cut flowers in a beautiful vase. In this space let love, romance, and fantasy reign. Open to your imagination. Express gratitude. Because I am not in your home now, looking at your space and furniture, this information is quite generic. Please use that which resonates with you. When you enter the sacred space of your bedroom, it should feel so, so pleasing. Claim that and claim the perfect relationship! *If you are pregnant or think you might be, leave all as-is under the bed to not disturb the Ling Chi preparing for the new baby. Clear all from under the bed after the baby is born. Affirmations In gratitude and with an intention to serve. |
| Clearing clutter is the single most important action to take to cause a shift toward the Greater Good in your life. |
"Your job, then, should you choose to accept it, is to keep searching for the metaphors, rituals and teachers that will help you move ever closer to divinity. The Yogic scriptures say that God responds to the sacred prayers and efforts of human beings in any way whatsoever that mortals choose to worship - just so long as those prayers are sincere. As one line from the Upanishads suggests: 'People follow different paths, straight or crooked, according to their temperament, depending on which they consider best, or most appropriate - and all reach You, just as rivers enter the ocean.'" Elizabeth Gilbert From: |
